Losing someone.
Hi everyone, I had to deal with that very recently with someone ridiculously close to me. There is pain, disbelieve and sadness. Even tho he is out off pain now, i have to live with a lot of pain because of this.
Because I never ever had to deal with something like that i Had no idea how I would react on it. But what I did learn is that seriously everyone deals so differently with it. And there is nothing wrong with any of those ways.. (Okay you should not drink it away but i would even get that tbh)
What I also got out of this experience is that no one knows how to deal with someone who is dealing with a great loss. Lets take me as example. I love hugs and i get a lot of comfort out of those but as soon as classmates started to hug me i broke. Just began to cry again. But not because I didn't like it. I loved it and all their sweet words made me comfortable.
If your friend is going through a period like this. Be careful but not too careful. Do try to get their mind off things but also give them the time to speak their mind about things....
Thats all I had to say.
RIP Banana man.
